Doeas love determine the rest of our life ?

A question that i am sure most of us had asked before , sice we mostly follow our hearts , no matter where it  takes us …  how many times it took us to great places and how many other times it took us to bad places … all depends on how compatible we ae with each other ….can we say that LOVE is everything ? after all we know it is something that mostly can not last forever . but on the other hand we can not live without it .. is it not only the reason we enjoy life ? but also the cause for all out mishaps in life ? a reason for all of our problems as well ?

How many do we meet in life that we can say WE  HAVE A TRUE  UNCONDITIONAL LOVE FOR ?  i am sure not many , many of us had given up tha hope ,or truly don’t believe in one .. so the big question still being asked till this day  WHAT IS LOVE ALL ABOUT ?

do you have an opinion….??

We all discuss, talk, spend fortune ,just to find LOVE, but in actuality we really become so busy in  our everyday life , we forget that we found it , and we forget to invest the time and efforts it needs to grow. Just imagine you are running a business, i am sure you would put 24/7 in it if you need to  in order to grow and make it successful, Romance and Love is the same as anything else we work for , it is just like our garden that we take care of , water it , and feed it with new flowers , why we tend to forget that we had found Love after we invest so much to find it ?……

אנו היצורים עלי אדמות עם רגשות, צרכים ותשוקות , בחיפוש תמידי לאהבה , שעל פי מחשבותינו הינה התכונה העיקרית שמניעה את מערכות היחסים בעולמנו ומשתוקקים להכרויות חדשות

האם קיימת אהבה ממבט ראשון ? או שזו סטיגמה מופרחת וללא בסיס אמיתי. אחרי הכל מה שאנו נשארים איתו לטווח ארוך זו האישיות שיש לכל אחד מאיתנו, וההתחברות המנטלית…. אם זה במערכות יחסים אישיות, או במערכות יחסים עסקיות אפילו, בסופו של דבר אנו נמשכים או נוטים לצידו של הצד שאנו מתחברים אליו מנטלית , באם זה קישור אישי או קישור עיסקי..  אז פה נשאלת השאלה האמיתית …. האם אכן קיים בשבילנו

? FACE2LOVE

או שמשיכה חיצונית אינסטנקטיבית היא דבר חולף

את השאלה הגדולה הזו אני משאיר לקהל הקוראים שלנו

When we start our relationships we have no idea where its going to lead , and no matter at what age…but what keeps our love going ?  is it the Romance ? our desires? or simply our personalities?

it can be the combination of all of the above, aside from the fact we must be compatible with each other…

So here we are standing in the middle of the Love field and kind of lost…  we don’t want to lose it, but we do not want also to take it for granted, after all relationships have a strange bad habit of getting into a routine as we discussed earlier…so what one should do to keep the flame going without trying hard everyday remembering not to take it  for granted.

I have been in many of those relations , where all of a sudden after a while we stop trying , or not trying hard enough to make ourselves feel good .

why is it always the ones we fear of losing that we try harder for ? a good questionindeed, but all we have to do and keep remembering is that we enjoy the romance in our relations , and try to keep it that way all the time, and NOT ONLY for the other side , but mostly for US.

any experiences out there ?

It was the Summer of 1986 …the day was a typical Hot and sticky summer day, and their first Encounter was on the tennis court

he was a young and handsome tennis instructor at the weekend resort and she was even younger college girl visiting for the weekend.. a weekend that will lead to a  ONE OF A KIND lifelong story …

A story that will be told in many months to come for the world to read and learn….

We all make statements in life and especially about our love life and relations that at times DO NOT exactly fit the bill…

What is LOVE at first SIGHT? is it always so real and strong as we like to think ? or  is it just a temporary LUST after what the eye can see?….and what is a REAL LOVE anyway?  a question i am sure many already attempted  to answer for many years ….  for the “tennis instructor” in the summer of 1986 it felt like it was a real love , even though it may have not  been a “Love at First Sight”…. but the “young college girl” felt that it was what we call a “Love at First Sight”…..

are they both LOVED the same way ? and how that transpired in the years to come…

anyone out there with such experiences to share ??